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Lovers get jealous. And so do friends.
But lovers get jealous because they demand commitment.
Friends get jealous because they demand attention.
But when lovers get jealous, they really look serious.
When friends get jealous, they look funny.

Lovers give each other gifts, and so do friends.
But when lovers do this, it’s but natural.
When friends give each other gifts, it’s sooooo sweet.

Lovers make each other happy. And so do friends.
They hang out, call one another, talk, yell, encourage when the other is down, sing, dance, eat
together. They share secrets, dreams, take care of each other.
But lovers expect these from one another.
Friends expect these from others too but got from each other instead.

Lovers can be complicated. And so do friends.
But lovers usually try hard to adjust with one another.
Friends just stay as what they are and don’t give a damn whether they are nuts, or freaks, or
stupids. ‘Cause friends are not turned-off; they only laugh.

Lovers freak-out when you forgot birthdays. And so do friends.
But lovers wouldn’t forgive until they forget.
Friends wouldn’t forgive until an hour after they receive a li’l bar of chocolate with a cheap card.

You can never be perfect, the person you love can never be perfect. But both of you can be perfect through love and prayers, and your love can be perfect through the two of you. But, no relationship is complete without God — that is why we have marriage. It’s a bond not only between you and your loved one but also with God.

Our relationships fail not because (s)he’s not the right person - it’s because we expected too much and we decided on our own. Let God do the work. You may call it "waiting time" but while you are waiting… pray. Let God guide you always. He knows better…. No, He knows best.

Love is not what you think it is. Sometimes we mistakenly feel that our first relationship will be our last. Because we are overwhelmed with joy and romance, we forget to learn the meaning of true love.

Some are saying that love is unselfish, blind, unconditional or simply denying one self for the sake of someone very important in our life. Others are saying love is immortal and can never be defined.

When we think we’re in love, the first thing we almost wanted the whole world to know is that our love for someone very special can never be taken away from us. We say this phrase: "You are the most wonderful gift from GOD I have ever received!" But after a terrible fight or sometimes even a petty quarrel we then say: "You are the biggest mistake I’ve ever made in my entire life!" Now, how do you say and spell the word L-O-V-E? Are you really deeply into it?

Nobody can tell what love really is until experience speaks and whispers right into our ears. Most of the time, these love promises like "Forever", "Till Death do us apart", etc. would end up "Never", "We should part ways…", "I’m no longer happy with you", "My love for you is DEAD!" Many times after having committed to someone and your trust to one another freezes down to zero degree,we thought: "He/She ain’t the right one. I should probably wait for the right one to come." But the big question anyone could not answer is "Is he/she the right one?" and "When is the right time?" That makes us stick to whom we are with.

Will you always be waiting for the right person to come and the right time to commit? A big YES is the answer. Don’t be in a hurry to get into a relationship because you can never find love if you insist that you are already into it. Try to find time to really understand your real feelings, to know who you really are, and what you really want in a relationship. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship, but there’s a compatible partnership that goes along with it.

If you already knew that you’re too big to fit into a small sized t-shirt, don’t give it a try. You’ll probably break it and pay for the damages you have made. If you knew and felt that the relationship will not last, don’t go deeper into it. You’ll just suffer the consequences and live like hell the rest of your life. It’s really hard to say goodbye though, but you can’t make it any better by just pretending you still have the same feelings. Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live life to the fullest. Give yourself a chance to grow and give your heart a much needed attention. Then you will find that you have made the right decision and you made it all by yourself. More fluently than not, we all act in a hypocritical manner for some reason.

We call it love when we can’t leave someone and see them crying as we try to let go. We are wrong, its just pity.

We call it love when we’re too attached and think that losing the one we love will somehow make us weak and unable to face the storms of life. We misunderstood, its just that we’re too much dependent to them.

We are sometimes very strange people. The only thing we want to say, and the one thing that we should say is the one thing that we don’t say. And yet because the feeling is so real, and the need to say it is so strong, we are driven to use other words and signs to say what we really mean. And many times the meaning never gets communicated at all and the other person is left feeling unloved and unwanted.

Therefore, we have to LISTEN FOR LOVE in the words that people are saying to us. Sometimes the explicit words are necessary, but more often, the manner of saying things is even more important. A joyous insult carries more affection and love within the sentiments, which are expressed insincerely. An impulsive hug says I love you even though the words might be saying very different.

Any expression of a person’s concern for another says I love you. Sometimes the expression is clumsy, sometimes even cruel. Sometimes we must look and listen very intently for the love that contains. But it is often there, beneath the surface.

A mother may nag her son constantly about his grades or cleaning his room. The son may hear only the nagging, but if he listens carefully - he will hear the love underneath the nagging. His mother wants him to do well, to be successful. Her concern and love for her son unfortunately emerge in her nagging. But it is love all the same.

A daughter comes home late, way past her curfew, and her father confronts her with angry words. The daughter may only hear the anger, but if she listens carefully, she will hear the love under the anger. I was worried about you, the father is saying. Because I care about you and I love you. You are important to me.

A girl may reprimand a guy to be a better person - to study well, to stop his vices, to be more responsible and mature in dealing with people, things and situations. He may see her as a person who is trying to control his life - trying to change his identity. But if he listened carefully, he would have heard the concern disguised under the constant nagging. The girl is afraid to see him pressured into going with the "wrong crowd", afraid to see his potentials go to waste, afraid of his future. But she has failed to express this love more sincerely, for fear of rejection.

We say I love you in many ways - with birthday gifts, and little notes, with smiles and sometimes with tears. Sometimes we show our love by just keeping quiet and not saying a word, at other times by speaking out, even brusquely. We show our love sometimes by impulsiveness. Many times we have to show our love by forgiving someone whom has not listened to the love that we have tried to express. The problem is listening for love is that we dont always understand the language of love, which the other person is using.

The problem with our world is that people rarely listen to each other. They hear the words, but the don’t listen to the actions that accompany the words or the expression on the face. Or people listen only for rejection or misunderstanding. They do not see the love that is there just beneath the surface, even if the words are angry.

pero minsan naiisip ba ntin kung ano epekto
nito
sa mga nasasaktan ntin??

masarap magtwo time…pag natapos ka sa
isa..lilipat ka naman sa isa..tpos sa iba nman
hanggang sa mag-sawa ka, tpos iiwanan mo
lng..kase may nkita kang mas gwapo o mas
mas
maganda sa knya…

minsan pag nag away kau ng number one mo
damay-
damay pati yung 2nd..3rd..and so
forth..kawawa
nmn sila noh?samantalang wala nmn silang
gngwa
sau kung di ang intindihin ka at mahalin
lang…

bakit nga kya masarap mag two time???

kse hindi ka marunong makuntento sa kung
anong
meron ang gf/on mo?

kase meron mas better sa present mo…?

kase selfish ka ayaw mong ilet-go yung
present
mo.
its for your own sake khit nasasaktan mo na
sia?

kase ano?
ano?

kase sarili mo lang ang iniisip mo…

e….pano kung gawin sau yun?
sa tingin mo makakaya mo?
sa tingin mo okey lang sau?
ano?…..ano?

dba masakit din?tsaka mo malalaman na
mahal mo
pala tlga cia pag may mahal na syang
iba..pag
hindi na ikaw ang mahal nya…tsk..tsk..tsk..

guys…masarap magmahal at mahalin..sana
lang ..

MARUNONG TAYONG MAKUNTENTO SA
IBINIGAY SATIN…
TAYO-TAYO NA NGA LANG ANG NAG
NAGKAKAINTINDIHAN..
TPOS TAYO-TAYO PA ANG
NAGTATALUHAN!!!!

HEY GUYS WAKE UP!!!!!

MAHALIN NYO MGA GF/BF NYO!!!!!!BE
LOYAL!!!