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Many of us are wishing, praying, hoping and dreaming

of having someone by our side. Naghihintay na may

ihulog ang langit para sa atin. We would even try

reading books about love and how to win it.

Tapos kapag may nakita, we would do anything just to

make the person feel that he/she is loved. We

sometimes sacrifice our own happiness just to be with

the person we love. In the process, we all get hurt.

Tapos we would give-up thinking na love was never for

us.

The misconception of humans about love and

relationship is that having someone with us will make

us complete. But the fact is "Love is extending one’s

self to another." It means that before we enter a

relationship, we should already be COMPLETE.

Otherwise, if we think that having someone will make

us complete, it’s not a relationship. It’s dependence

and it may not work out. When you are happy about

yourself and you learn to love yourself, you may

probably need not a partner (to a certain extent).

Right now, I’m trying to love myself more and to

accept completeness. What happens next will be another

story. But for some who may be losing hope, this

affirmation may help.

COMPLETE

Just because no one has been fortunate enough

to realize what a gold mine you are,

doesn’t mean you shine any less.

Just because no one has been smart enough

to figure out that you can’t be topped,

doesn’t stop you from being the best.

Just because no one has come along

to share your life,

doesn’t mean that day isn’t coming.

Just because no one has made

this race worthwhile,

doesn’t give you permission to stop running.

Just because no one has realized

how much of a man/woman you are,

doesn’t mean they can effect your

masculinity/femininity.

Just because no one has come

to take the loneliness away,

doesn’t mean you have to settle for a lower

quality.

Just because no one has shown up

who can love you on your level,

doesn’t mean you have to sink to theirs.

Just because you deserve

the very best there is,

doesn’t mean that life is always fair.

Just because God

is still preparing your king/queen,

doesn’t mean that you’re not already a

queen/king.

Just because your situation

doesn’t seem to be progressing right now,

doesn’t mean you need to change a thing.

Keep shining,

Keep running,

Keep hoping,

Keep praying,

Keep being exactly what you are already,

COMPLETE.