___101 WAYS TO SHOW U LUV SUMBODY___

May 19th, 2005 by baby-val

1.        Tell the other person that you love them

2.        Give or get a hug

3.        Make sure the other person feels important and respected

4.        Kiss when people are looking

5.        Kiss when people aren’t looking

6.        Tell the other person that you care

7.        Hold hands

8.        Go for a long bike ride

9.        Give a special present

10.     Be there when they need a friend

11.     Spend time together

12.     Go to see a film

13.     Walk arm in arm in the woods

14.     Make a special tape of love songs

15.     Talk about your feelings

16.     Share dreams with each other

17.     Snuggle up together

18.     Sit together in the park

19.     Take a walk together

20.     Go out for a meal

21.     Have a picnic

22.     Play a game of frisbee

23.     Give compliments

24.     Relax in a jacuzzi

25.     Go swimming

26.     Just be close

27.     Go shopping for food

28.     Cook a meal together

29.     Touch each other in a loving way

30.     Do homework together

31.     Plan and go on a trip together

32.     Throw a party together

33.     Bake a cake

34.     Go to the library

35.     Browse in a museum

36.     Just be there

37.     Find out what’s special for the other person - and do it

38.     Exercise together

39.     Gaze at each other

40.     Wash each other’s cars (or bikes !)

41.     Go fishing

42.     Talk to each other

43.     Listen to worries

44.     Cut each other’s toenails

45.     Choose a special favourite song

46.     Listen to joys

47.     Hold one another close

48.     Catch their eye

49.     Write one another letters

50.     Talk on the telephone

51.     Trust one another

52.     Give or receive a ring

53.     Meet each other’s family

54.     Go hiking together

55.     Make sacrifices for each other

56.     Send chocolates

57.     Respect each other

58.     Go for a moonlight walk

59.     Hide a love note where the other will find it

60.     Give each other sexy looks

61.     Write a poem

62.     Send flowers

63.     Eat dinner by candlelight

64.     Go to a concert

65.     Watch the sunrise together

66.     Remember anniversaries

67.     Give each other pet names

68.     Go sightseeing

69.     Rent a video

70.     Do things for each other without being asked

71.     Propose marriage

72.     Whisper something nice into the other’s ear

73.     Be best friends

74.     Have fun together

75.     Go out dancing

76.     Play music together

77.     Flirt with each other

78.     Laugh at something funny together

79.     Be faithful

80.     Impress each other

81.     Make a list of things you like about each other

82.     Read a book and discuss it

83.     Meet each other’s friends

84.     Go horse riding

85.     Cook each other’s favourite food

86.     Find out what makes each other happy

87.     Make presents for each other

88.     Wash each other’s hair

89.     Watch the sunset

90.     Go for a bus trip

91.     Have a request played on the radio

92.     Send a funny card

93.     Share your plans for the future

94.     Play footsie

95.     Share private jokes

96.     Think about each other

97.     Find out what makes the other sad

98.     Go skating

99.     Swap rings

100.  Share an ice-cream

101.  Have your picture taken together

___LISTEN FOR LOVE___

May 19th, 2005 by baby-val

There are times when we are timid and shy about expressing the love that we feel. For fear of embarrassing the other person, or ourselves, we hesitate to say the actual words "I love you." So we try to communicate the idea in other words. We say take care or don’t drive too fast or be good. Bet really, these are just other ways of saying I love you. You are important to me. I care what happens to you. I don’t want you to get hurt.

We are sometimes very strange people. The only thing we want to say, and the one thing that we should say is the one thing that we don’t say. And yet because the feeling is so real, and the need to say it is so strong, we are driven to use other words and signs to say what we really mean. And many times the meaning never gets communicated at all and the other person is left feeling unloved and unwanted.

Therefore, we have to LISTEN FOR LOVE in the words that people are saying to us. Sometimes the explicit words are necessary, but more often, the manner of saying things is even more important. A joyous insult carries more affection and love within the sentiments, which are expressed insincerely. An impulsive hug says I love you even though the words might be saying very different.

Any expression of a person’s concern for another says I love you. Sometimes the expression is clumsy, sometimes even cruel. Sometimes we must look and listen very intently for the love that contains. But it is often there, beneath the surface.

A mother may nag her son constantly about his grades or cleaning his room. The son may hear only the nagging, but if he listens carefully - he will hear the love underneath the nagging. His mother wants him to do well, to be successful. Her concern and love for her son unfortunately emerge in her nagging. But it is love all the same.

A daughter comes home late, way past her curfew, and her father confronts her with angry words. The daughter may only hear the anger, but if she listens carefully, she will hear the love under the anger. I was worried about you, the father is saying. Because I care about you and I love you. You are important to me.

A girl may reprimand a guy to be a better person - to study well, to stop his vices, to be more responsible and mature in dealing with people, things and situations. He may see her as a person who is trying to control his life - trying to change his identity. But if he listened carefully, he would have heard the concern disguised under the constant nagging. The girl is afraid to see him pressured into going with the "wrong crowd", afraid to see his potentials go to waste, afraid of his future. But she has failed to express this love more sincerely, for fear of rejection.

We say I love you in many ways - with birthday gifts, and little notes, with smiles and sometimes with tears. Sometimes we show our love by just keeping quiet and not saying a word, at other times by speaking out, even brusquely. We show our love sometimes by impulsiveness. Many times we have to show our love by forgiving someone whom has not listened to the love that we have tried to express. The problem is listening for love is that we dont always understand the language of love, which the other person is using.

The problem with our world is that people rarely listen to each other. They hear the words, but the don’t listen to the actions that accompany the words or the expression on the face. Or people listen only for rejection or misunderstanding. They do not see the love that is there just beneath the surface, even if the words are angry.

Simon ang Garfunkel wrote that very haunting song, the sound of silence. It goes ten thousand people, maybe more. People talking without speaking; people hearing without listening; people writing songs that voices never shared, because no one dared disturb the sound of silence. It is a terrifying picture of our modern world, a world without communication and without love. We have to listen for love in those around us. If we listen intently we will discover that we are a lot more loved than we realize. Listen for love and we will find that the world is a very loving place, after all!

 

___REASONS WHY I LOVE YOU___

May 19th, 2005 by baby-val
  • i love the fact that i wouldn’t ever give up on you.
  • i love the way you look at me.
  • i love the way i can’t imagine a day without you.
  • i wouldn’t know how to go on if we were ever separated.
  • i love the way we cuddle together.
  • we sometimes stay up all night just to talk.
  • i know you’ll always be there when i need you to be.
  • the unexplainable feeling when i’m with you.
  • the way you make me laugh.
  • the way you laugh.
  • your tenderness
  • the way we glance at each other and know what we’re thinking.
  • i love the way you surprise me of coming in my house that show you missed me.
  • the way you treat my friends/family.
  • how you would do anything to make me happy.
  • the way your voice sounds over the phone.
  • the completeness and oneness……..
  • your sensuality
  • i love how our romance feels like the perfect romance-comedy movie.
  • the way you respect me
  • the way you protect and guide me
  • the softness of your lips against mine
  • i love the special moments we’ve shared
  • i love how you love me
  • your ways of showing your affection for me
  • your sense of humor
  • the way you dress
  • i love our life together
  • your way with words
  • how you look when you’re sleeping
  • the way you treat me
  • the way you take care of me
  • i love your ability to make me feel better
  • the way we make up after a fight
  • the way you told me "let’s not fight anymore"
  • the way you apologize when it does hurt.
  • the way you make me smile
  • how you fit your arms around me
  • hint that you want to kiss me
  • the you react so cutely when i hit you and it actually hurts
  • the way you hug me everytime you want to
  • i love you for being sweet
  • the way you make "lambing" when i’m mad
  • i love you when you’re jealous
  • the way we spent time together
  • your small acts of sweetness
  • i love it when we sleep together
  • the way you kiss me at every chance you get
  • the way you flirt with me
  • when you taught me how to play our theme song
  • the way you kissed or even bite my stomach
  • the way you make sacrifices for me i.e., coming here late at night just to see me
  • i love it when you talked about your feelings for me
  • i love it when you share your plans/dreams with me
  • the way you tell me you love me
  • i love it when you please
  • you’re the most sincere person i have met. i know you mean everything you say because you’re not someone who says something because you know others want to hear it.
  • you make me feel safe
  • you listen to me although sometimes you’re not
  • you’re totally yourself, you say and do as you want without a care as to what others think
  • i can trust you
  • i can be myself when i’m with you
  • i can tell you anything and you won’t be shocked
  • you bring out the best in me
  • you say what i need to hear
  • i love the way you call me "Hon"
  • how you laugh at me when i do something stupid/silly
  • how you are considerate of my feelings
  • your perfume
  • the way you miss me
  • the way you give me big hugs for no reason
  • the way you control/stop my bad habits/vices
  • the way you listen to my subtle requests
  • your intimacy
  • i love it when you consider my feelings/opinions/decisions
  • I LOVE JUST THE WAY YOU ARE
  • ___TWO TIMER___

    May 2nd, 2005 by baby-val

    masarap mag two time dba guys?..yung
    tipong dala-
    dalawa sila… tatlo-tatlo.. minsan
    sampusampu
    pa nga e dba?!

    pero minsan naiisip ba ntin kung ano epekto
    nito
    sa mga nasasaktan ntin??

    masarap magtwo time…pag natapos ka sa
    isa..lilipat ka naman sa isa..tpos sa iba nman
    hanggang sa mag-sawa ka, tpos iiwanan mo
    lng..kase may nkita kang mas gwapo o mas
    mas
    maganda sa knya…

    minsan pag nag away kau ng number one mo
    damay-
    damay pati yung 2nd..3rd..and so
    forth..kawawa
    nmn sila noh?samantalang wala nmn silang
    gngwa
    sau kung di ang intindihin ka at mahalin
    lang…

    bakit nga kya masarap mag two time???

    kse hindi ka marunong makuntento sa kung
    anong
    meron ang gf/on mo?

    kase meron mas better sa present mo…?

    kase selfish ka ayaw mong ilet-go yung
    present
    mo.
    its for your own sake khit nasasaktan mo na
    sia?

    kase ano?
    ano?

    kase sarili mo lang ang iniisip mo…

    e….pano kung gawin sau yun?
    sa tingin mo makakaya mo?
    sa tingin mo okey lang sau?
    ano?…..ano?

    dba masakit din?tsaka mo malalaman na
    mahal mo
    pala tlga cia pag may mahal na syang
    iba..pag
    hindi na ikaw ang mahal nya…tsk..tsk..tsk..

    guys…masarap magmahal at mahalin..sana
    lang ..

    MARUNONG TAYONG MAKUNTENTO SA
    IBINIGAY SATIN…
    TAYO-TAYO NA NGA LANG ANG NAG
    NAGKAKAINTINDIHAN..
    TPOS TAYO-TAYO PA ANG
    NAGTATALUHAN!!!!

    HEY GUYS WAKE UP!!!!!

    MAHALIN NYO MGA GF/BF NYO!!!!!!BE
    LOYAL!!!

    soweee sa mga natamaan ko po….=((
    ginigicing ko lng kayo sa matagal nyong
    pagkakatulog….bka ksi pag gising nyo wala
    na
    yung taong nagmamahal sa inyo ng totoo…